For separated parents, the school holidays can present some tough challenges when it comes to arranging childcare. Navigating these arrangements amicably and realistically is crucial to maintaining a stable environment for the children and reducing stress for both parents.
There are lots of things to think about when it comes to making arrangements for children and it may take some time to find a solution that works for everyone. It is important therefore that a plan is considered in good time before the school holidays and that parents are being flexible and open in communication with each other.
When making any arrangements the child’s welfare should always come first and consideration should be given to any potential changes in their routine, their wishes and feelings, preferences and age. As a starting point, it might be a good idea to discuss with the other parent the issues that are agreed and those that are not. It may also be a good idea to meet at a neutral place away from the children to discuss.
Communicating with the children may also be helpful when making arrangements, depending upon their age. It is often thought that keeping children out of these discussions will protect them however explaining any change of routine gently to them will give them time to adjust and is likely to make them feel listened to. This is also an opportunity to understand what they want to do with their time during the holidays although ultimately it is a decision for the parents.
If an agreement still cannot be reached, parties may need the assistance of third parties to reach agreement. Probably the most well-known option is mediation in which an independent mediator helps parents to explore options and find a mutually beneficial solution. Round table meetings and the collaborative process involve both parents and their solicitors working together to find a solution across a series of meetings outside of the court process. Arbitration is a private court process where parties agree on the arbitrator and the timescales for the process but are then bound by the arbitrator’s decision.
If non-court dispute resolution is unsuccessful, it may be time to consider court proceedings. However, these can be lengthy and costly and parents are therefore always encouraged to resolve issues through non-court dispute resolution first.
If you would like any advice in relation to holiday contact or contact arrangements in general, please contact our Family Team on 08000 147720 to speak to one of our experienced Family Law Solicitors.
The above article is for illustrative purposes only and does not constitute legal advice. It is recommended that specific professional advice is sought before acting on any part of the information given.
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